The internet has given us so many words to judge people with. Red flag, toxic, narcissist, gaslighting, love bombing, the list keeps growing. And I notice that the more terms we have, the faster we reach for them. A small gesture, one awkward sentence, a…
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I Am Starting to Understand Why People Back Then Were Never in a Hurry
I was born in 2006, so I never really lived in the slow era. By the time I was old enough to understand the world, everything was already fast. Instant delivery, instant reply, instant information, instant entertainment. If I want food, it arrives in minutes….
Why Are We So Afraid of Looking Ordinary?
Everyone seems to have a personal brand now. A portfolio, a list of achievements, a highlight reel of wins, a story of how they made it. Open any app and you are met with people building themselves into something impressive. And somewhere in the middle…
I Do Not Know When Life Turned Into a Checklist
One day I sat quietly and a rather unsettling thought hit me. When did my life turn into a checklist? School, then college, then a job, then earning money, then owning a house, then getting married, then having a family. Everything lined up neatly like…
What Happens When Everyone Can Get Almost Anything Instantly?
I realized something the other day while waiting for a food delivery. The app said fifteen minutes, and somehow those fifteen minutes felt long. I kept checking the screen, watching the little icon move on the map, slightly annoyed that it was not here yet….