Pacaran itu kegiatan di mana satu cowok dan satu cewek punya hubungan. Tapi di tulisan ini saya lagi gak mau cerita soal pacarannya, saya mau cerita kenapa kok orang orang pengen banget pacaran. Mungkin mulai dari diri sendiri ya. Saya dulu pernah pacaran waktu SMK,…

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